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Episode #39: "Exploring the Hidden Forces in Dating: Understanding Defense Mechanisms"

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 02 Apr 2024 23:13:28 GMT

Dive into our latest episode of Think Smart, Act Smart, as we explore
the hidden world of defense mechanisms in shidduch dating. Hosted by Mrs. Baila Yaniv and powered by PartnersInShidduchim.com, this episode uncovers how subconscious guards like projection and denial influence our dating journeys. Tune in for insights on navigating these challenges with greater awareness and authenticity.

Episode #38: Navigating the Delicate Balance: Honoring Yourself on Your Journey to Finding Your Bashert.

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 28 Mar 2024 17:50:45 GMT

In this enlightening episode of 'Think Smart, Act Smart,' your host Mrs. Baila Yaniv delves into the critical importance of setting boundaries and the struggle against people-pleasing in the pursuit of shidduchim. Drawing upon Torah values and real-life experiences, we explore how embracing the power of 'no' can lead to profound self-discovery and personal growth and, ultimately, guide you closer to finding your bashert. Learn about the significance of recognizing your patterns, building self-esteem, and confidently owning your journey. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between honoring others and staying true to oneself, all while on the path to meaningful connection with your bashert.

Episode #37: Unspoken Bonds: The Power of Nonverbal Communication in Shidduchim

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 22:25:18 GMT

Unlock the secrets of nonverbal communication in relationships and dating with our latest 'Think Smart, Act Smart' episode. Delve into practical tips and wisdom from Shlomo HaMelech to enhance your connections without saying a word. Discover how to express and read the silent signals that speak volumes in the search for meaningful relationships and your bashert

Tune in to transform your dating experience with the unspoken art of love.

Episode 36: Episode 36: Bridging Worlds - The Eastern-Western Tapestry of Shidduchim"

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 17:35:24 GMT

Join host Baila Yaniv in a profound exploration of how Eastern traditions and Western modernity blend to shape our search for a Bashert. This Shidduchim Podcast delves into the rich heritage and contemporary challenges faced by mature singles within the Jewish community. Discover how values, faith, and the wisdom of Torah guide us in navigating the complexities of our mesorah and modern dating, illuminating our path towards true companionship. In this episode, we celebrate the unique synthesis of cultures and values, offering insights and encouragement for everyone on their journey to the chuppah. Proudly brought to you by ShidduchProfiles.org - our motto - How can we help you? - 845.607.0090.

Episode #35: "The Art of Questioning: Unveiling the Heart of Your Future Bashert"

Baila Yaniv — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 02:38:48 GMT

'Join us in Episode #35 as we delve into the pivotal role of asking the
right questions in the shidduch dating journey. Discover the questions that cut to the core, revealing the essence of the person you're considering for a future together. It's not just about finding someone; it's about finding the right someone. Tune in for insights on crafting conversations that uncover compatibility, values, and dreams.

Episode #34: "Divine Timing & Determined Effort: The Thurm Shidduch Story"

Baila Yaniv — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 16:10:53 GMT

In this heartwarming episode of 'Think Smart, Act Smart,' we sit down with Mrs. Ruthie Thurm, a mother whose faith and initiative exemplify the powerful blend of divine trust and personal effort. Discover how she navigated the path to finding her son's perfect match through the shidduchprofiles.org database, all while holding onto emunah (faith) and actively engaging in the shidduch process. Mrs. Thurm shares her inspirational journey, offering insights and encouragement for families and singles navigating their own shidduch journeys. Whether you're yeshivish, modern Orthodox, or heimish, this story of hope, patience, and divine orchestration will uplift and inspire you to blend heavenly trust with earthly action in your search for a bashert.

Episode #33 - Overcoming Shidduch Fears #3 - Fear of Provision

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 21 Feb 2024 20:20:40 GMT

Feeling stuck on your journey to finding your bashert? Worried about how you'll provide in the future? You're not alone. Join Mrs. Baila Yaniv in our latest episode, 'Embracing Your Tikun: Overcoming the Fear of Provision,' as we uncover the hidden blessings in our fears. Learn how these challenges are not just hurdles but divine invitations to grow, trust, and prepare for a life filled with love and faith. Dive into practical wisdom and steps to transform your journey today.

Episode 32: Overcoming Shidduch Fears Pt. 2

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 15 Feb 2024 20:38:20 GMT

Join Mrs. Baila Yaniv for a captivating session on 'Think Smart, Act
Smart: Overcoming Shidduch Fears.' This episode draws a beautiful
analogy between Hashem's gift of light and warmth and our journey to find our Bashert. We explore how divine illumination helps clear our
path in the search for a partner, guiding our choices to reflect our
true Torah values. We also discuss the importance of emotional warmth and connection in growing a relationship. With Torah wisdom and inspiring stories, we learn to see challenges not as rejections but as steps toward a brighter future. Episode 32 offers a hopeful outlook on the shidduch process, encouraging us that with faith in Hashem, every move brings us closer to the warmth of genuine ompanionship.

Episode #31 " Overcoming Shidduch Fears Pt. 1"

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 14 Feb 2024 18:17:52 GMT

Think Smart, Act Smart: Overcoming Shidduch Fears' is the go-to episode of the shidduchprofiles.org podcast series, where we dive deep into the fears singles face on their journey to finding their bashert. Host Mrs. Baila Yaniv, blends Torah insights, personal stories, and actionable advice to help you navigate the emotional landscape of shidduchim with faith and confidence. Whether it's fear of the unknown, rejection, or making the wrong choice, this episode arms you with the wisdom to think smart and act smart in your search for love. Join us as we transform fear into strength on the path to building a bayis neeman b'yisrael.

Episode #30 - "Pathways to Peace: Divine Calm in a Chaotic World"

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 08 Feb 2024 16:51:07 GMT

Pathways to Peace' is your serene escape into a world of tranquility amidst the hustle of everyday life. Join shidduchprofiles.org as we explore practical steps and enlightening insights to cultivate inner peace and divine calm. From mindfulness and gratitude to connecting with nature and acts of kindness, each episode guides you closer to a peaceful heart and a joyful spirit. Dive into a journey of transformation with us, and discover how to carry the calm within you, no matter the chaos around.

Episode 29: "Emunah, Mesorah, and a New Twist on Shidduch Matchmaking For YOU!"

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 05 Feb 2024 19:12:05 GMT

Discover the story of Miriam and Dovid, a couple who found each other by weaving together the threads of Emunah and Hishtadlus, a new twist in shidduchim. Their journey is a testament to the beauty of holding onto our roots while embracing the present possibilities. Dive into a tale of Emunah, mesorah, and shidduchim in our new age of shidduchim.

🎧 Be inspired and share your thoughts with us. How do you balance mesorah and your personal efforts to find your bashert? Call us at 845.607.0090 or go to shidduchprofiles.org TODAY!

In Episode 28 of "Dating Journey to Marriage

Baila Yaniv — Fri, 02 Feb 2024 13:52:01 GMT

In Episode 28 of 'Dating Journey to Marriage,' we delve into Rabbi Ostrov's 'Seven Gates' of relationship building. Each gate offers practical, real-world insights for those navigating the shidduchim process. From the hopeful beginning at the Gate of Hope to the commitment at the Gate of Engagement and Marriage, join us on this enlightening journey to discover the keys to lasting love and partnership. Find your path to a meaningful relationship in today's dating and marriage world.

Episode 27: "The Step of Affirmations in Dating: Building Deeper Connections"

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 29 Jan 2024 22:47:25 GMT

Welcome to 'Moments of Connection,' where we explore the art of building meaningful relationships. In this episode, we delve into the power of affirmations in dating, those small yet impactful statements that can transform your dating experiences. Join us as we discover how affirmations can create genuine connections, spark meaningful conversations, and make your dates more memorable. Tune in for real-life examples and practical tips to incorporate affirmations into your dating journey. It's time to enhance your dating experiences by acknowledging and appreciating the uniqueness of your potential partner.
Listen now and start building deeper connections in your dating life.

Episode 26: "Unlocking Deeper Connections: The Inner Circle Method in Dating"

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 20:48:06 GMT

'Explore the profound impact of Rabbi Shaya Ostrov's 'Inner Circle' concept on dating conversations in this insightful episode of 'Think Smart Act Smart.' We discuss how deep connections are rooted in emotional clarity and self-understanding, drawing on the wisdom of our closest relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern dating, offering practical advice and transformative insights. Join us as we bridge traditional wisdom with contemporary challenges, unlocking the secrets to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.'

Episode 25 - "Clarity Amidst the Quest: Unveiling Destiny in Shidduchim"

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 16 Jan 2024 19:12:31 GMT

In today’s episode of 'Clarity Amidst the Quest,' we draw inspiration from the timeless wisdom of Dovid HaMelech and his poignant reflections in Psalm 2:1. As members of shidduchprofiles.org, join us in a meaningful discussion that bridges the ancient with the modern, exploring how the search for our bashert is not a silent journey but one filled with the uproar of choices and voices. Discover how to find solace, direction, and clarity in your pursuit of a life partner amidst the complexity of contemporary dating. This episode is for those who are ready to cut through the noise, embrace their individual journey, and step confidently towards a future written with purpose and partnership. Tune in and transform the way you navigate the waters of shidduchim with the strength of kings and the heart of seekers.

#24 - Chapter 1 Verse 4 The Chaff and the Tzaddik: A Reflection on Modern Influences

Baila Yaniv — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 01:38:32 GMT

As we ponder the metaphor of chaff in the context of our lives, let us
aspire to embody the qualities of the tzaddik—rooted, substantial, and enduring. Let us recognize and resist the winds of negative influence,
holding fast to the eternal truths that ground us. Through this, we may
navigate the shidduch process and our lives with wisdom, integrity, and
depth.

#23 ✨ "Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom" - Chapter 1 Verse 3 - "He shall be like a tree planted alongside brooks of water"

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 13 Dec 2023 19:03:45 GMT

Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom' is a guiding light for navigating the path to finding your zivug. Inspired by Dovid HaMelech's profound insights, this podcast explores how each act of kindness and mitzvah, from visiting the sick to comforting the bereaved, plants seeds that shape our character and destiny in love. Join us as we delve into these teachings, offering practical advice and spiritual support to help you find and nurture your bashert.

#22 Shidduch Success: Understanding the Value of Matchmakers

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 07 Dec 2023 18:22:44 GMT

Explore the nuanced art of appreciating shadchanim in this episode. A Chanukah message that discusses the importance of recognizing their hard work in matchmaking, with a focus on the appropriate financial gratitude for different outcomes in the shidduch process.

#21 Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 6 - #4

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 06 Dec 2023 18:31:32 GMT

'Exploring the profound teachings of Tehillim and the importance of
positive impact in life, especially for singles seeking meaningful
connections. Includes actionable advice and encourages joining a
supportive community.'

#20 Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 2 - #3

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 05 Dec 2023 18:40:53 GMT

Episode 19: Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 1 - #2

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 28 Nov 2023 13:41:33 GMT

Welcome to 'Think Smart. Act Smart.' — a podcast where the timeless
wisdom of Tehillim meets practical advice for today's singles in
shidduchim. Discover insights from the verses of the Psalms that inspire
smart thinking and proactive actions, boosting spirits and guiding you
towards meaningful connections. Embrace the journey with the wisdom of
the past to find the joy of tomorrow.'

Episode 18: Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 1

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 28 Nov 2023 00:47:14 GMT

Episode 17: After how many dates should a person know that this relationship is the right one?

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 16:25:32 GMT

With Mrs. Baila Yaniv, Founder of ShidduchProfiles.org powered by Partners In Shidduchim and Dating Coach Mrs. M'nucha Bialik.

Ep. #16 Coach M'nucha Bialik with Founder, Mrs. Baila Yaniv, ShidduchProfiles.Org, - Making It A Great Day.

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 03 Jul 2023 17:30:23 GMT

#15 - Dina, a recent Kallah shares how she used Shidduch Profiles Plus to make her friends shidduch.

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 17 Aug 2022 20:54:46 GMT

In this delightful podcast, listen to Dina, a recent Kallah describe how she used Partners in Shidduchim to optimize her search for herself and her friends. While her Shidduch ultimately came from elsewhere, Dina matched her friend on the PINS site and shares how she was able to do so. Listen and learn about how PINS levels the playing field to allow Dina - and me, you , everyone- to become active shadchanim.

Interview #14 with Mrs. Aleeza Ben Shalom to help singles identify if this is the one or if they should be done.

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 01 Dec 2021 15:20:18 GMT

In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom addresses the challenges singles face when dating especially around knowing if you are dating the one or if you should be done. No matter age, stage or background, identifying the one is a tremendous challenge for everyone. Aleeza addresses how you can find your bashert and provides several ways to help singles make that decision with clarity.

Episode #13 - An Interview With Dr. Devora Samet, Psy.D., M.S. Ed.

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 18 Oct 2021 21:12:02 GMT

In this episode, hear from Dr. Samet, one of the leading advocates of PINS, about how her line of work directly ties in to the process of dating and relationship building. Gain an understanding of how enhanced communication tools can and do improve the quality of a date and accelerate the process of one individual learning about another. As a bonus, discover a great communication strategy that can be used on a date and beyond!

Episode #12 - Rebbetzin Zlata Press's Opinions About Adult Dating With A Bold and Fresh Approach

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 20:11:00 GMT

Dating can be tough at times. Lots of questions. Lots
of confusion. Veteran mechaneches Rebbetzin. Zlata Press
provides a bold and fresh approach to relevant questions
you may have. How does the idea of a “bashert” impact
your decision-making? How much time and effort do you
need to invest? Should you push the shidduch forward or
simply wait and see? And, perhaps the most difficult, is
when - if ever - should you compromise on your “list” if
you’re not yet seeing any success.

Rebbetzin Zlata Press is the long-time principal of
Bnos Leah Prospect Park Yeshiva High School in Brooklyn

Episode #11 Rabbi Goldberg: Valuing Diversity and Celebrating Unity Impacts Singles

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 14:50:29 GMT

In this episode, Rabbi Goldberg takes on a range of commonplace perspectives surrounding 'singles' and the dating experience, such as the surrender-hishtadlus paradox, the phenomena of 'mixed' Sephardic and Ashkenazic shidduchim, the oft-felt reality of being in a 'holding pattern' while single, and what 'settling' should be called. Most importantly, hear about what he believes the role of singles can and should be within our broader community - and what role PINS plays with that.

Episode #10 With Dr. Leah Adams, Psychologist: Sharing Tips How You Can Avoid Dating Burnout

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 07 Jul 2021 16:27:52 GMT

Podcast #10 with Dr. Leah Adams, Psychologist In this fascinating podcast, listen to Dr. Leah Adams, a psychologist in a women-focused practice, share her wisdom as it relates to the dating woman. Hear her novel approach to the effect of self-esteem on the dating process and what singlescan do to fortify themselves against potential pitfalls.

Episode #9 Listen to this Halachic and Hashkafic approach to dating, by Rabbi Coren, Rav of Ohr Chaim in Monsey NY and Rabbinic Advisor to Partners in Shidduchim.

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 16:27:47 GMT

Listen to this Halachic and Hashkafic approach to dating, by Rabbi Coren, Rav of Ohr Chaim in Monsey NY and Rabbinic Advisor to Partners in Shidduchim. In this episode, Rabbi Coren responds to questions relevant to daters. Walk away with an empowered perspective about what you can do to further advance your efforts to meet your bashert.

Episode #8 with Mrs. Toby Lieder, International Dating Coach and Shadchan, Part One

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 04 May 2021 14:29:24 GMT

In this oh-so-refreshing interview, listen to Mrs. Toby Lieder, An Australian-based dating Coach/Shadchan, as she details how she breaks down all time and geographic barriers to help singles of all kinds everywhere. In her unique approach, she harnesses technology gifts to meet her long-distance clients, matches them with others in her database, and offers support during their dating process. Hear about her dating resources and dating game - and how one couple managed 18 SKYPE dates during COVID! A must-listen for all seeking a forward-thinking approach in the world of dating. Listen to Part One now - and come back for Part Two soon!

Episode #7 With Mr. Kraus, LCSW, Shalom Task Force - Informative Interview

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 12:36:30 GMT

Listen to Mr Kraus, LCSW, as he details the mission and work of Shalom Task Force. Hear his take on what steps individuals can take to fortify existing relationships and to form new ones. An informative, action-oriented interview!

Episode #6: Interview with Mrs. Mnucha Bialik, International Dating Coach

Baila Yaniv — Wed, 07 Apr 2021 15:37:01 GMT

Episode #5 with Eliezer Miller, PINS Success

Baila Yaniv — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 15:30:04 GMT

Podcast #5 with Eliezer Miller, PINS Success
In this enjoyable interview, listen to Eliezer as he describes the unusual way in which he joined PINS and the wonderful result - his marriage to Chana! Learn about how the choices made by his sister and action taken by Chana lead to his match. Also, hear his take on what sets PINS apart from other dating websites, and from the conventional ways of navigating shidduchim.

Episode #4 with Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen, International Dating Coach and Shadchan.

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 20:32:51 GMT

Podcast #4 with Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen, International Dating Coach and Shadchan.
Hear Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen talk about what led to his career change from orthopedic surgeon to helping singles meet and marry. He pinpoints the challenges he encounters as a dating coach, as well as what he perceives as the greatest challenge facing singles today. Most importantly, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen shares the stories of his successes and valuable wisdom for us to think about and act upon.

Episode #3 With Dovid & Baila Yaniv, Founders Of The Partners In Shidduchim - How You, The Single, Can Choose To Expand Your Reach To Get Matched.

Baila Yaniv — Mon, 22 Feb 2021 13:15:21 GMT

Mrs. Meira Gold, Staff Volunteer and Volunteer Writer interviews Dovid and Baila Yaniv the founders of Partners In Shidduchim. They discuss how and why the site was founded. How the site works and the challenges they are trying to address through the PINS platform. They share their wisdom how singles and those that advocate on behalf of singles can think smart and act smart utilizing the PINS network.

Episode #2 with Mrs. Chave Piasek who made a choice she never thought she would.

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 28 Jan 2021 10:39:00 GMT

Mrs. Chavie Piasik shares how she chose to explore new opportunities to find her son his zivug. Her story reveals how she stepped out of her comfort zone, explored a new opportunity, acted on it, and met with success.

Episode #1 with Founder Mrs. Baila Yaniv Interviews Mrs. Anette Rosenthal from Toronto Ontario learning why she aspires to inspire singles.

Baila Yaniv — Thu, 21 Jan 2021 16:10:30 GMT

Mrs. Baila Yaniv, Founder of Partners In Shidduchim, interviews Mrs. Annette Rosenthal of Toronto, Ontario. Mrs. Yaniv asks Mrs. Rosenthal, a PAL (Personal Advocate Liason/Shadchan) on the PINS website, why she joined, and why she encourages singles to expand their reach. The interview explores why singles are choosing not to join a network or why they are choosing to join a network that can put them in the drivers seat. This episode aims to get singles and others to air their views and create a voice for the singles and for anyone who advocates on behalf of a single. More involvement in the grassroots initiative means more opportunities to learn more about our singles and shadchanim and others' needs and frustrations and unite to drive change.